Monday, September 26, 2011

#3 ineffective habits

1-Jealousy
Jealousy causes a lot of problems anywhere. Wanting something or someone over another person or being angry at someone for living their own life can create a life waldo of regret. Regreting how you live your own life based on how others are living their life can create a negative attitude towards your own life and therefore make you unhappy.
2-Dishonesty
Being loyal and honest to anyone is important. It is important to tell the truth so you get the respect and loyalty back. This also has some boundaries too, being honest is good when it is something positive or helpful. Being honest to be rude is not a good way to show someone that you're honest, loyal, and respectable.

1-Selfishness
Thinking about yourself first is never a good way to live. Being selfish can lead to you being unhappy about how your living your life. It is important to maintain an attitude where others are more important then yourself and that way you could build relationships based on that. Although I do believe most people in this world are selfish I do think that there are little selfless type acts that people can do everyday.

4-Excuses
Excuses are basically lies that you tell in order to get out of something or out of trouble. They sometimes are reasons for not getting something done or not wanting to do something. Excuses are barriers which allow you not to move on and be successful at what your goal or mission is.
5-Over confidence
Over confidence can get you far in life, but it won't get you very far with your relationships. No one likes an over confident person who thinks they are a winner all the time. You will not get a good social or group or people will not like you if you think you are the best at everything.

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